33 year-old mother, hugs a year only 9 year-old daughter to jump down from 6th the floor, died in pairs. This time, was away from her to complete the divorce procedure, has passed merely for one month 8 days. Is her marriage why stave? Why can she lead the child to step onto the extreme?
The mother hugs female jumps from an upper story leaves behind 4 posthumous writings
On July 17 9:45 am, Jilin Bai Shanshi Fusong County Dalian Xin city plot. The sudden dull thumping sound, the plot resident is startled dumbfoundedly by at present pitiful condition: Big small two forms fall from 6th the floor, after the landing, is separated by less than half meter ......The residents encircle very quickly, those who recognize leaps off a building is pair of mother and daughter, 33 year-old Aunt Bai Meng and year only 9 year-old daughter young Yan, in the young Yan hand is also taking the chicken feet which has not finished eating. Those images and scenes, let many women flow off the tear.
After it happened, 120 rush to the scene urgently, however, young Yan already died at the scence, because Bai Meng also rescues the invalid death.
After the police investigate, recognized that Bai Meng is jumps down the suicide from oneself 6 building bathrooms. But from child death time in hand's chicken feet and before it happened one day once participated in the Fusong County ginseng baby to select active the situation to look that young Yan very has the possibility has not been compelled in the protection situation to leap off a building.
Picture shows: The park swing is along the river daughter young Yan most likes playing, now only in rain empty
The police had discovered in Bai Mengjia 4 posthumous writings, first writes for the parents, second writes for the elder sister, the brother-in-law,baby dolls toys kids, third is for the ex-husband, last writes for a friend. Posthumous writings inscription date for July 16.
4 posthumous writings' contents are approximately same, expressed that they wanted, hoped the family members to be able the good good work. In gives the ex-husband in the Qiao Yi posthumous writings, Bai Meng expressed to his disaffection, indicated that in daughter's diary writes is not wanting to grow up, does not want to marry the sentence lets her feel despairs very much, therefore she decided that the belt daughter walks together, did not think that in the future the daughter will encounter and the same life. In the posthumous writings, Bai Menghuan urges the ex-husband, hoped that can grant two person of houses own parents.
Reporter learned that Bai Meng and Qiao Yi on June 8 the divorce by agreement, Bai Meng goes to Dalian hiring out for working afterward. To Dalian soon, sprouts in vain always receives the daughter young Yan telephone. The being in suspense daughter, Bai Meng only then returns to Fusong, who would imagine all are unable to recall ......
Several midnight loudly quarrelled finishes 10 year marriage
On July 22,（Related Articleskids shoes Tao Zhu Zhong young three loves care trained external baby）, reporter saw the Qiao post along the river in the Fusong County park. He is managing flat head, the skin is swarthy, the eye is inflamed. This is the place which my daughter most likes before death, I always lead her to come this to swing ......The Qiao post was saying off and on, the tears gush out unceasingly from his eye.
10 years ago, Qiao Yi and sprouts the love match in vain, after marriage one year had daughter young Yan. Bai Meng in the Fusong County forestry bureau work, the Qiao post once arrived at Changchun to work, after resigning, goes to the Shandong sunshine to do business, at the beginning of this year returns to Fusong County.
Comes back after Shandong, Qiao Yi has listened to wife's suggestions, at the beginning of April has bought the house in Dalian Xin city plot loan, after afterward has sold out the sunshine house, is uneven surplus Fang Kuanbu. But Qiao Yi has not gone to the new home to stay for one day, the house just had repaired, Bai Meng must move, I said that dries in the sun, her oneself moved, but did not have several days to come back.
Qiao Yi said that period of time, he and wife's friction is unceasing, the reason is the wife suspected that he has the woman in outside, which day quarrels a most intense time is I records is unclear, she evening drinks up liquor some people to deliver her to come back, after entering the room, me asked that her who delivers, she said that she comes back, I said that I heard some people to deliver your sound, by now she looked like insanely said equally: Only permits outside you to have the woman, cannot outside me have the man? When we quarrel next day past 2:00, my mother hugs her shoulder to urge her, is only then tranquil down until past 3:00 her.
On June 8, Qiao Yi and sprouts in vain has the quarrel once more, in the evening two people reach an agreement after dawn, manages the divorce procedure .6 months on 9th, my past 5:00 have gone to work, past 8:00 she telephones to me, to the marital registration office, we reached the agreement very quickly, according to hers request, the house turns over to her, the daughter fosters the power to turn over to me, but present is bringing by her, the child support payment by me, waits for when her second marriage delivers the child. Qiao Yi said that several minutes signed the agreement, left calmly.
Mentioned the divorce the reason, Qiao Yi said that after he returned to Fusong County, formed a partnership with a distantly related female relative to do business, opposite party age was bigger than him. He said that because always has in the service relation, some people will suspect unavoidably, especially after Bai Meng will commit suicide, this view passed on fiercely, that person was my husband of younger sister's sister-in-law, because must discuss the work together, rode a vehicle frequently, but we were only the functional relationships. I have not done have been unfair to her matter!
Heart of idle half chicken feet sincere favored daughter
Actually these years, she has me at heart, I has her at heart, but she has been too ruthless, she knew that I most love the daughter, she has carried off the child, lets me be for a lifetime uncomfortable! The Qiao Yi tears gush out once more.
Qiao Yi said that 9 year-old young Yan is the Fusong County experiment elementary school 3 grade students, this year the terminal examinations, her mathematics and the foreign language have tested 100 points. I and the daughter look like the friend to be the same, I call her the smelly son-of-a-bitch, she also calls me the smelly son-of-a-bitch.
My daughter specially attractively lovable, likes dancing since childhood, regardless of I in any local work, will not forget that will give her to report the dance class, will test the level. In Changchun duration of work, I thought when daughter steals in the bedding is crying, the second day one already goes by car, only to look at her one.
on 17th about 10:00, after receiving the telephone which the daughter has an accident, Qiao Yi rushes to the Fusong County hospital, my daughter bleeds profusely from the head the blood to lie down on a bed, already did not have the breath, to fall distorted, I hug when she goes to the morgue, in her hand is gripping has not finished eating half chicken feet falls ground. The daughter most likes eating the chicken, on 14th I also led her to eat the small stupid chicken.
After young Yan dies, the family member to avoid Qiao Yi seeing an object and thinking of the owner, and so on and her related thing has burnt down the young Yan picture, only then that half chicken feet is also remaining, this was the daughter only leaves me to commemorate ......Also wants to buy a piano to her, now what didn't have ......Bai Meng in left in my posthumous writings to add the daughter and she thought dissimilarity, also did not want to live, this was purely rambles on, I did not believe that I did not believe ......The Qiao post is being redundant the last few words, wipes the tears with the hand.
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Parents: Question possibly on the third party body
Reporter contacted with Bai Meng the parents. In the telephone, Bai Fu the sound shivers: That day I am just about to when goes out, has received the telephone, I see the daughter am at the same time finally the hospital, at that time she had already not breathed. I and the spouse straight only then knew by that time the daughter has divorced ......She gives in our posthumous writings to write, lets us not be sad, the beforehand family of three days, she cannot lead the daughter again to go to the heaven of heavens, have extricated to there, will be called us not to be sad.
The sentiment which and sprouts in vain regarding Qiao Yi, Bai Fu indicated that before is good, when they locate the object, I did not agree that for this, my girl has also drunk two medicines, you said that the sentiment can not be good? But the question possibly appears on the third party body.
By now, the white mother received the telephone, sobbed was saying: My daughter jumps from an upper story is because of the sentimental disagreement,baby socks, then divorces, I and her father the 61 years old, the body has not been this year good, we could not accept such fact. Bai Meng parents-in-law to her very good, mother-in-law gives back to her to do laundry, she jumps from an upper story is because of the sentimental question ......
Elder sister: The younger sister wants to result in the divorce is too simple
I and the younger sister exchange quite many, she thought the marriage to be fearful more and more, after being able to withstand the divorce attack, she very much strove to excel. Bai Meng elder sister Bai Ling said that I thought the younger sister at that time should be most painful, she is works human who has orderliness, the disposition is quite introverted, the tradition woman, looks at importantly compared to all the family. I thought that if perhaps her friend many spot, good somewhat, usually will be I and she exchanges. I always urge her, but the solution basic question, marital this kind of matter only then she grasped.
Bai Ling said that she knew Bai Meng divorces, but had not said to the family member, she urges the younger sister frequently, she displays very much in front of me strongly, also once went out hiring out for working, wants to scatter the divorce shadow, but leaves family's period of time, each time telephones with the child, the child cries, she also cries, she does not give up the child only then to return to Fusong, has an accident the preceding day of evening, both of us also deliver the child to perform, at that time she was merry.
The younger sister wanted to result in the divorce has been too simple, but after divorcing, only then discovered that after originally divorce, wanted to come is again impossible. Bai Ling said.
Expert: Tragedy and social support related
Chinese Social Science Institute social psychology Research center Director Professor Yang Yiyin believed that Bai Mengbao female jumps from an upper story belongs to an extremely special example, could not the list carry on the inference from the behavior to her psychology then, only the posthumous writings which stayed behind from her make the judgment are also inaccurate. Marries 10 year divorce person not at all merely only then Bai Meng,baby socks stay on, but many people can face the reality to live, and has the single mother to have the case which the child lives strongly. After Bai Meng the psychology has the problem, if some people carry on the intervention to it, perhaps will help her to pass the crisis condition, matter's result will present the change, but did not have this person to appear. But Bai Mengyou regards as the family life the only way out, has lost the family, then has lost the life faith, will then compel an impasse.
Yang Yiyin said: Regarding an adult, the life and death is she chooses, she is intends the force of will to control, but Bai Mengque passed the burden her tragedy imagination has given the child, she did not go to think that the child can cross in the future well, but was worried that in the future will meet has resulted in not well, therefore the choice death evaded, overcame with the imagination in heaven of heavens to the death the fear and to child's compunction.
Yang Yiyin indicated that excessively many blames Bai Meng humanity is also not unfair, her tragedy and social support related, when the psychology has the problem solves not promptly, has not sought help own interpersonal network, the long time will form the psychological disease. In sprouts in vain in the eye, the family is possibly her only support, when this support, arrived at the situation but actually has no way out.
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